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How to Prepare for Temporary Duty (TDY) Assignments: A Guide for Service Members and Their Families

Soldier leaving for TDY hugging his daughter

Embarking on a temporary duty assignment can be an exhilarating opportunity, not only for career growth but also for personal exploration. Whether you’re headed to a bustling city or a remote military base, preparation is key to making the most of your experience. In this guide, we’ll walk you through essential steps to ensure you’re fully prepared, from administrative necessities to personal comforts.


What is TDY?

A temporary duty assignment (TDY) is a specific assignment or task that requires military personnel to temporarily relocate to perform duties at a location other than their permanent duty station. These assignments are often necessary when certain skills, expertise, or hands-on participation are required at a different location for a limited period. 

The duration of a TDY is determined by the specific needs of the assignment, ensuring service members have adequate time to complete their tasks without a permanent change of station. This temporary relocation not only helps fulfill mission-critical objectives but also provides personnel with opportunities to gain new skills and experiences.


Different Types of TDY

There are many reasons why a service member may receive a TDY. The most common reasons include:

  • Training and Development: Attending specialized military training programs, workshops, or seminars to enhance skills or acquire new qualifications that are essential for an individual’s role but cannot be conducted at their home station.
  • Operational Support: Augmenting a unit or department to assist in disaster relief efforts, participate in joint military exercises with allied forces, or provide additional manpower during major events or security operations.
  • Project-Specific: Contributing expertise to a specific project or initiative that requires specialized knowledge or skills.
  • Audits and Inspections: Conducting financial audits, compliance reviews, or safety inspections at military bases to ensure adherence to standards and regulations.
  • Meetings and Conferences: Participating in policy development meetings, strategy planning sessions, or international conferences that require direct interaction with others.
  • Research and Fieldwork: Performing scientific research, environmental monitoring, or collecting geological samples in specific locations that are critical to the research objectives.

Prepare Your Home and Family for Your TDY

TDYs can be an emotionally and logistically taxing process for spouses and families. Below are some strategies to help you prepare. 

  1. Emotional Preparation

We live in a digital world; use it to your advantage. Stay connected with family and friends who won’t be joining you via social media, calls, video calls, and texts. Doing this regularly will help you and your family maintain a sense of normalcy. 

Even though TDYs are only temporary, making connections is crucial for feeling comfortable and supported in your new space. If possible, establish relationships with other spouses and personnel. It’s likely they have also experienced a TDY and may be able to offer some guidance. Look for community groups, volunteer opportunities, and recreational sports leagues to grow your social support network.

  1. Logistical Management

Moving can be stressful and chaotic if you don’t plan ahead, especially if you’re changing time zones. Try to prevent some of this turbulence by establishing a routine for your family. This includes meal times, social time, family time, errands, and more. Doing this will provide your family with stability. Meal planning or batch cooking can also help with this.

Depending on the length of your TDY, you may need someone to check on your house while you’re gone. Find a trusted friend, relative, coworker, or neighbor who is willing to take responsibility for keeping your place clean and in good condition. If you’ll be gone for more than a week or two, be sure to remove any perishable food items from your house before leaving. 


3. Financial Planning

Before leaving for a TDY, ensure that your finances are in order. Automate payments as much as possible, set a budget, make a plan for paying any bills while you’re away, and talk to your landlord or provider about utility management. At the very least, there are steps you can take to minimize utility costs, such as turning off heating and air systems and unplugging all devices and appliances. Be sure to cancel or pause any subscriptions you won’t use while you’re away, like streaming services, meal kits, gym memberships, cable, and internet. 

When it comes to insurance, contact your agent for advice on managing your policies. Ask if a change of address is necessary and how it will affect your policy. Also, provide your insurer with any new contact information to ensure they can reach you if necessary. If your provider allows it, consider adding a secondary insured who will remain local to your policies. This person will be able to contact your provider to get information, make changes, or contest claims for you if necessary. This is especially beneficial for those who are relocating to areas with different time zones, as your provider’s hours of operation may not be conducive or convenient. 

If you have auto insurance and your vehicle will not be used during your TDY, talk to your insurer about putting your policy in vacation status. This will keep your car protected against loss or damage while reducing your monthly payments. Avoid canceling your policy, as some states require you to maintain minimum coverage.


4. Planning for Children

Talk to your children about the TDY, what it means, and how it will affect the family. Open communication can help them better adjust to the change and feel more secure. TDYs can be frightening for children, so it’s crucial to create a plan, communicate the plan, and stick to it.

If your children are going with you, it’s a good idea to keep a calendar of school events, assignments, and extracurricular activities. This helps you manage your time effectively and ensures your children remain engaged and active. You should also make childcare arrangements as soon as possible. Even if one parent won’t be working during the TDY, it’s important to have an established childcare plan in case of emergencies, social events, and unexpected events.

If your children will not be joining you, establish a robust childcare plan. This plan should include who will be taking care of them, how you will provide financial support, creating lists of important information like doctors, medications, and allergies, making school arrangements, creating a will that establishes guardianship, and scheduling regular video calls to stay connected. 


5. Pet Considerations

Unfortunately, your furry family member probably won’t be allowed to go on your TDY, so you’ll need to put a plan in place for them as well. Find a trusted caregiver—a relative, friend, neighbor, boarding facility, or sitter—to be responsible for your pet. Provide them with your veterinarian’s information, preferred food, routines, and any medications. 

Reach out to your veterinarian and inform them of your situation. If possible, consider leaving a credit or debit card on file for the vet to charge after your pet visits. If this isn’t possible, discuss with your caregiver how you will financially support your pet while you’re away. 


Resources for TDY Families

You don’t have to navigate the uncertainties of your TDY alone; there are countless resources you can access for support, including:

  • Family Readiness Groups (FRGs): The military organizes these groups to support families. FRGs provide information, assistance, and activities to help families cope with the challenges of military life.
  • Spouse Clubs: Many bases have spouse clubs that offer a range of activities, from social events to volunteer opportunities. These clubs are a great way to meet other spouses, share experiences, and receive mutual support.
  • Military OneSource: This online resource offers free, confidential support and information 24/7 for military members and their families. Services include counseling, help with child care, personal finance, education, and more.
  • Installation Family Support Centers: These centers provide various assistance programs, including relocation services, financial management classes, employment assistance, and family counseling.
  • Online Communities: Numerous online platforms and forums exist where military spouses connect, share advice, and offer support to each other worldwide. Find them through a quick Google search or on your preferred social media platform.

Conclusion

As you gear up for a Temporary Duty Assignment, remember that thorough preparation can make all the difference. Utilize the strategies and resources available to support military families, stay connected, and maintain a stable home environment. Embrace this opportunity for growth and new experiences, knowing you’ve set a solid foundation that keeps your family secure and supported. With these preparations in place, you’re ready to handle any challenges that come your way during the TDY.

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Common TDY Questions

How do I submit TDY claims?

To submit TDY claims, gather all relevant receipts and documentation. Fill out the official TDY claim form provided by your administrative office or online portal. Then, submit the completed form and necessary documents as directed.

Is TDY the same as deployment?

TDY is not the same as a deployment. TDY is a temporary duty assignment. It is short-term and for specific tasks or training. Deployment is a longer-term assignment, typically overseas, and is focused on operational missions or combat.

Do you get paid on TDY?

Yes, you receive your regular pay during a TDY. You may also be eligible for per diem allowances to cover meals, lodging, and incidental expenses related to the TDY.

Can I go with my spouse on TDY?

Yes, spouses can typically go on TDY with service members. However, this may depend on the type of assignment.

Can you take leave while on TDY?

You can take leave during a TDY, but it requires approval from your commanding officer or supervisor. The leave must align with the operational commitments and not interfere with the purpose of the TDY.

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